ok so we are on wked like 6 in a row of my wife goin out.....she admitted last wk that she has fucked up and spent too much so then tonight i pick her up from work and she says that her new work friend wants to meet up for a few drinks and well last night when we met with him she has already planned she is going out 2mrw night as well so i said ok so u goin out 2mw night too? she says well ummm i guess i dont have too and i said well we arent trying 2 spend so much money and she says ok so whats my wked budget i said 30 and it was silent so we get home and then she accidentally texts me and says "can u spot me a few my gf is pickin up on my spending habits..... first of all.....whoops! 2nd.....gf?????? i have a name and i met him so call me by name or say fiance?! 3RDLY.....really 30 isnt enuf? so then she asked if i had the cash or if she had to get it and i said i think i do and asked if that was not enuf.....she says its whatever its doesnt matter..... ???? then i had 40 cash and she says i will bring u back the change.....see ya later i said ok i love you and she mumbled i love u too i said whats wrong she says im like a mom sometimes..... im over it but u can clearly see on her face shes not over it. fuck!!!!!!!!!
idk what im supposed to do.... i know she will get a good check in a wk but i need some things and cant go get them, i also said well if u need more money then im def not goin out this wked and shes like at all?! i said nope.
why cant we spend a wked in?! and why does she need to spend so much nmoney going out? i dont fucking get it?! am i a controlling bitch? what am i doing wrong and what can i do right?! anyone......anyone???? i try to say the right things and i come off as a mom.
she has really fucked up the last few wks and im still teh one with the headache and the upset stomach, shes out with friends having fun not giving a shit. then i asked her if she was coming home, she rolled her eyes and said YEAH..... well last sat nite she didnt and wouldnt answer her phone so why is that such a bad question?
Lord, please tell me what to do...... help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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